Big international dating agencies in Ukraine. The main problem
now is that the dating industry in Ukraine started to behave like a corporate business,
where the profit is the only thing
they care about, and the people are just the
source of the profit from both sides, men and women. Small local agencies can not
compete with big international agencies and slowly get out of business. In order
to survive they start to affiliate with bigger sites and lose their identity and
helping men and women to find each other and get married is not their main objective
How they operate. When you join big dating site aggressivly advertised around the Internet, you see tons of young Ukrainian girls jumping on you as soon as you get
online. You really believe all of those girls are seriously looking for men 20-30
years older from them??? I don't think so. The truth is that is just a job for them and they get paid chatting or writing letters to you, if you are on pay-per-letter
type of dating site.
Relationships between big dating sites and local agencies in Ukraine. So when local agency can't get high results in google search, they can't
get clients, and no clients means no money. They have no other choice, but start
to participate in affiliate programs. And this is perfect system for local agencies
who only have gold diggers and very little or no serious women at all. They start
to put profiles of their women on the dating sites and in order to get noticed start
sending introduction letters. So when you log in to your account and see hundreds
of letters from pretty girls, for sure 90% of those letters
were automatically sent
Register a fake profile with ugly photo and terrible description, you will
still be getting same amount of letters. Why? Because
you pay to read those letters.
And when you pay, the local agency who sent those letters gets commission.
How young girls make money when they join big dating sites. Usually, local marriage
agencies who affiliate with bigger sites, recruit women at any places they can find,
it's a game of numbers for them and the more is the better. Most of the girls they
get are university students
who never have money and don't mind having extra profit.
The only job that the girls have to do, come to the agency to take few photos and
when men arrive meet them, go out with them and smile. The agency is taking care
of the rest. So when you are corresponding with a girl, it's someone from the local
agency writing to you, when you chat to the girl, again that's someone from the
agency chatting to you. The only way to see who you are really talking to, do video chat.
But even if you do so, most of the girls who do video chat are doing that because they get high commission from
their local agency. And of course the deal is that
they get commission from the profit that the local agency is making using their
photos and other details. When you meet such girls in real life, you are forced
to use agency interpreter who would charge $20-$25 per hour. They do it because
the interpreter was the person who have been communication with you, so she knows
what to answer when you ask something. And they have to split the money in 3 parts,
one part goes to the agency, one part goes to interpreter and one part goes to the
girl. So this is really like having expensive escort girls with no sex. And if you
get apartment or airport transfer or something else from the local agency when you
come to Ukraine, be sure everything is going to be double priced. And they always
want you to come, because this is the time they are making good money and use you
as a walking ATM.
How to break the corrupted system of dating industry in Ukraine.
There is always a way around. The 1st thing you must do is to
get the girl out of the agency. If you can not establish
direct communication, this is not going anywhere.
The girl may
say she can't get out as she has a contract, she can't give her contact
info as it's not allowed by the dating site. All of that is half lie that they use
to keep you using expensive dating site services, so they can make commission. If
the girl wants to give you her info and communicate to you outside the agency, she
will do it. There are different tricks, you can type your number in letters when
you chat, you can give your e-mail address when you have a phone call and so on.
Or just find her on a social site like VK.com Another important point is always
do all your travel arrangements
on your own, don't rely on a girl or the local agency,
don't put money in their hands. And use your own interpreter, if the girl
you came to meet only wants to use the agency interpreter and you have your own
interpreter for the half price, it's pretty clear that the girl is only there to
make some money.